Truth
CR: Lang Leav
Sometimes people walk out of your life, because they found a flaw they cannot accept
Sometimes people walk out of your life, because they...just didn’t love you in the first place.
And this hurts
The feeling of abandonment hurts.
It makes you feel unworthy, it makes you feel like you are unworthy of love. It makes you believe that everyone else who will walk into your life, will walk out...without looking back.
You lose your sense of self-worth
You question who you are, and you question if you have been doing the right things all along.
You pick out each and every flaw that they pointed out and you work on it.
But it gets too overwhelming.
And suddenly, everything about you is wrong.
And suddenly, everything that you believed in is wrong.
You start to change yourself to the image that they portray to you
The image that they want you to be.
But is that you?
Is that the person you want to be?
That might not be the person you want to be.
But you want to be with them, you want to return to familiar surroundings, familiar people.
But at the expense of yourself.
You try to change, and you fail over and over again, because that is not you.
In the process of changing, you lost yourself.
And now, you are neither the person they want you to be, nor are you the person that you used to be.
You are stuck in the middle ground, lost, hurt and helpless.
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Be clear of what you want for yourself
Be clear of what you think you do not like of yourself
Do not be swayed by their noise
Do not let yourself burn and be a person you do not want to be
We all grow from experiences in life
Sometimes things happen for a reason, because we need to grow, we need to learn
But always remember, when things happen to you, it doesn't mean that you are a bad person and you need to be punished. Sometimes there are just bad people in the world.
Dont blame yourself.
Continue to do good, and something good will happen to you.
The energy that you put out, is the energy that you will get back in return.
Always keep that in mind and good things will happen to you.
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