Humans are superficial beings.
The first impression we form of a person is usually by their appearance/looks
In a group setting, we tend to be interested to know more about the most good looking person in the group. Let's accept this as a fact, and accept that this is just human nature to be attracted to good looks.
However, have you ever wondered if your partner is attracted to you only due to your looks? He/she might deny it because society has portrayed people who focus on outer beauty as superficial. And thus most people are unwilling to admit and accept that they fall into that category that society has created.
Hence, you will never know, and this gives rise to so many insecurities.
Will he leave when he finds someone prettier?
Will he leave when he you have aged and changed?
Is he only with me because of how I look?
And the fact is that you will never know, until it happens.
The unknown in the future is so great.
How will I ever know?
How will I ever get over that fear?
When will I learn to trust myself?
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There are things in life that you cannot control.
And this is one of them.
It takes two hands to clap
You can put in all the effort for the relationship to work
But if the other party aint faithful, there is really nothing you can do.
Granted that if both parties are happy in a relationship, nothing will change.
And you will be blaming yourself for not being good enough.
But the fact is that
maybe you weren't a good pair
Maybe you weren't compatible in the first place.
So
let it go
let the relationship go
let the blaming game go
Because if you can't make a change to that situation.
Then let it go
Create a new situation and start afresh.
If there is fate, it will happen.
But remember, do not stoop to that level and be superficial too.
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